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Showing posts with label Joel. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

A full Year of Schooling

This marks the end of his first year in public schooling.


He started in the beginning of January 2010.


Its been loads of ups and downs.


But mostly up.


Joel has enjoyed this schooling year immensely. Even though its his first time to public schooling.


Many learning and growing opportunities.


His friends has provided heaps of friendship and fun throughout the year.


He is blessed with many good friends and wonderful teachers who are committed.


If you ask me, I think he is really really blessed to be it this school. I think he realizes it too.


Well, next year is just around the corner. It seems as if it was just yesterday....


Oh, forgot to mention that Ethaniel too had a good year :-)




Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Happy 14th Birthday, Joel

To My firstborn son,


You are fourteen
A number neither big nor small
A season of fun and all
Life of carefree calls


I have enjoyed your company
Not denying that your tricky
behaviour at times equates to the monkey
Drawing me to the point of insanity


Since you and i
Are still alive
We must have worked a partnership


I have enjoyed the jokes you churn out
You have overtaken me with your sarcasm and wicked sense of humor
Making me laugh with your lame remarks
Like the one about the hospital having a HOSPITAL sign on it
Kept me amused for weeks


This year has been a year of change
Good changes
New friends, school and house
Hope you continue to enjoy your life
I hope awesomeness becomes your life
For today and always
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Thursday, June 3, 2010

Interesting Facts

At School, Joel was in a team of 3 boys. They were required to do a write-up of a particularly famous person for History class. The group leader wrote additional essays in case his team members forgot to do it. Well, EW did forget his essay. Before he was to read the essay, he was encouraged by the teacher to read it first before presenting it to the class.


Unfortunately EW did not.


He just picked up the essay and started reading it to the class.


After EW finished reading … The Teacher thought that the ending sentence had very interesting facts. Even she did not know it….


"…… and he wore purple underwear and was fat."


Teacher SC turned to Joel who was sitting beside EW. He was holding his stomach and controlling a huge laughter from bursting out.


She then took the essay piece to look and realized that the last sentence was in a different writing.


The whole class burst out in laughter…


….when they realized that Joel added the "…… and he wore purple underwear and was fat" to teach EW a lesson… "Read before presenting", as Teacher SC has instructed.


This story was related to me by his principal.


No, he was not sent to the principal's office. Incidentally the group leader is the principal's son. They had a good laugh over the prank.


I raised Joel to be humorous, able to take pranks, jokes and not to feel offended when his peers play jokes on him.


But.


I did not expect him to exceed way beyond my expectations!


Have I created a monster?





Joel & friend schoolmates enjoying a game of Twister



Saturday, May 1, 2010

Job's Friend

Due some recent events happening in my life and out of frustration with myself, I expressed it to my older son, Joel during our regular breakfast sessions.


Me: I feel like kicking myself.... Sometimes, I just feel like kicking myself...


Joel: Do you need any help?


Me: *blink blink*


There you have it, a complete replica of Job's Friend (Job from the Bible who had lousy friends who were not helpful at all in his time of need).


Just what I need....


I still feel like kicking myself.... and him too.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Sign

'My butt is super big and I mean BIG!!!!!'


This note was stuck on my butt without my knowledge. No other than by my most
appreciative son. . . towards my rear end.


By the way, he wears high powered glasses, so, I would discount some of his judgement about the magnitude of my er . . er . . you know where.

--
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Tuesday, March 2, 2010

"I'm glad that I'm not a woman"

"I'm glad that I'm not a woman", exclaimed Joel.


Hmm.....


Should I feel happy or insulted?


Happy - because he is so confident of his manhood. There are untold numbers of young men in Thailand who aspires to be a female. You can see teenage boys wearing make-up. Its an awful sight. Trust me.


Insulted - because he doesn't want to be like Mummy. Haha. I should be so glad!


"Why are you glad you're not a woman?" I asked.


"Because I don't have to give birth to babies. So painful", explained Joel.


"Yeah. You are so fortunate. I am glad for you too," I agreed.


As much as I have accepted my womanhood, I do agree to a certain level that being a male has many advantages.


In the Asian culture, eventhough most women work, yet, they are expected to juggle their family lives simultaneously. Not only there are children to be taken care but housekeeping, cooking, marketing and the general well-being of the family is usually undertaken by the women.


In some countries, the women are really oppressed. Its really sad.


Are my Sons really fortunate born male?

Friday, February 5, 2010

Worth a million dollars

Now that Joel is going to school, he has friends of his age. Teenagers. That word might reek fear in some parents.


While Joel is in his teenage-hood, Ethaniel is emerging from his toddler-hood and barely in his boyhood (eventhough he will always be my baby), I didn't realise the adjustment both of them is going through. Previously, both of this boys were in the same world. But now, the environment seems to threaten it. Not necessary bad. Just different.


This happened in the car the other day.....


"Ethaniel, can you please behave normally infront of my friends? Don't make your shoulder funny or talk too much (as if that is possible)" complained Joel.


"I am not!!!" denied Ethaniel.


"My friend said that you talk too much and said that you complained about something" continued Joel like a dog not letting go of its bone.


"I do not!" said Ethaniel, his face now flushed. If it goes any longer, he might even start to tear.


They have been going to and fro and I knew that its a job for Mummy to butt in. We are obviously going nowhere with this....


I told Ethaniel to tone down when Joel's friends are around. Obviously some of his behaviours are causing embarrassment to him, this teenager. I also told Joel that he needed to understand that Ethaniel likes to talk. Its going to be impossible for him to be quiet. After all, I am his Mummy, I know that is impossible, unless he is asleep or his mouth is stuffed with food.


I had to ask Joel.


"Why didn't you stand up for your brother?" I felt annoyed.


"I did. I told them not to complain about my brother. And they don't. Not anymore" exclaimed Joel.


At that instant, I felt like jumping on him and giving him a hundred kisses. But of course, I couldn't, I was driving. So, I pat him on the head and ruffled his hair.


"I am proud of you for standing up for your brother", I said, beaming.


You should have seen the contented smile on my face and the warmth in my heart.


Worth a million dollars....


All the memories of their rolling on the bed, hitting each other, roughing it out, arguing loudly in the car, annoying their Mummy with this constant boy-play was momentarily erased... Bliss for a few seconds...



Sunday, January 24, 2010

"I wish that I had school today"

It was a Saturday.


"I wish that I had school today," exclaimed Joel.


The heads turned in slow motion toward this young man. Namely his parents. Shocked. Yes. Disbelief. Yes. Eyes popping out of our heads. Almost.


"Give me back my Son!!! Whoever you are. You are an alien intending to steal the body of my Son??!!! Give me back my Son!!!" I screamed in my head.


"Oh... really?" I remarked with an air of calmness *smiling*


Well, what do you know. He is loving his schooling experience. Its only been 2 weeks, of course.


Is it because of the little homework he gets daily? Maybe.


The bunch of nice teenage boys he is hanging out with? Maybe.


The experienced, friendly, not-too-strict Teachers he has? Or the "awesome" Math Teacher? High probability.


How about the yummy catered restaurant food he eats during lunch time? Yeah.. Could be.


How about the break he gets from his Little Brother while at school? Hmm... maybe not. I noticed that he enjoys torturing Ethaniel quite a bit.


How about the teh tarik, nasi lemak and small chats he has with his dear Ol' Mummy just before classes start (there is 1 hour to kill after I dropped Ethaniel to school and before Joel's classes begins)? Yes! That's the reason. He enjoys hanging out with his dear Ol' Mum on a daily basis just talking about the mundane things in life.


I should savor this moments, right?


"One teh tarik, please!"

Friday, January 8, 2010

Nervous, Scared & Excited!!

Mother and Son was nervous.


Probably Mum was more nervous. Not exactly sure, it was difficult to tell.


At 13+ years old, this is his 1st day at formal school. Not exactly formal. Its a learning centre. He is preparing for O Levels Cambridge... for the nex 3.5 years. There were 17 others boys and girls who was probably as nervous as him.


"I am so nervous, scared and excited all at the same time!!!" Joel exclaimed just the night before. He has been expecting to start his classes on 4 Jan 2010, since 3 months ago. Emotionally he is prepared, I think.


Today, Friday, after attending classes for a whole week, Joel has declared that school was, "Awesome!!" He is really enjoying his subjects, especially Math, because of the Teacher. The Teacher is an exceptionally good teacher. Science will be conducted at the Zoo next week. Seems like heaps of fun and practical learning moments.


He has sports curriculum on Thursdays and a Badminton Coach has been engaged for those students who would like to learn the basics. Well, he is going for that. He had heaps of fun and I was joining another Mother at the other side of the courts, just for fun. Even Ethaniel has agreed to go under the Coach. This is a good thing. At least, I don't have to make additional effort of getting a Coach for him in the future.


This marks the end of my journey as a Homeschooling Mother. 2010. A start of a new journey, new season. I have been homeschooling since Joel was 5 years old. He is now 13+ years old. That was 8 years ago...


Time to move on.


But to what?

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Babies & Shoes

I was baby-sitting my niece who was 1.5 years old. Whilst travelling in the car, there was a bad traffic jam and she was not used to sitting in the baby car seat. Infact, it was her first time. I know, blame it on my brother.


Little Ji Ann, began to cry. The screaming, deafening, sharp kinda cry. As we were in the car with all the windows, it didn't really help.


After 15 mins of cry....


Joel: Aaarrrgghhh... I can't take it anymore! *frustration*


Me: *trying to pacify Little Ji Ann by giving her toys to play*


Joel turned to me and said the following....


Joel: Its OK for her to cry for 3 mins but for 10 mins, she will be tasting her shoes!!!


*shocked reaction from Mum*

Friday, October 9, 2009

I guess not....

What does 13 years old boys like to do for their birthday?


Hmm.... let me see....


Hang out with their Mum to a quiet dinner at the Mamak stall?


Watch a movie with their Little Brother?


Window shopping with Grandma?


Sit by the computer reading their Mum's blog?


Giving the dog a bath?


Finishing Math homework which was suppose to have been completed last week?


Watch Spongebob Square pants 13 series at one sitting?


Hmm....


I guess not.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Excitement in the Air!





"I am sooooooo excited that I cannot sleep", Joel came over and hugged me.


It was already 11:23pm.


"Why are you so excited?" I asked curiously.


"Because I am turning into a teenager tomorrow. That only happens once a lifetime", he said beaming.


Its really great to see him being so excited about himself turning into a teenager ... 13. That's a big number. I felt excited for him.


I don't think I have ever been that excited about my own birthday. Of course then, there was nothing to look forward to. I wasn't going to get a party or presents from my parents. Unlike Joel, who is so fortunate because he has been talking about his birthday present for months now. I still don't know what he has decided on.


I hope that he will have a great week because we will probably have a dinner with him during the weekend and then upon his request, have a few friends to go to Midvalley Megamall to some playground. I have not checked out the place, yet. But his friends mentioned that it was fun. So, that would be probably next week. How nice. The birthday celebration is spaced out for a whole week.


The joy of childhood.


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Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Joel's Upcoming Birthday

Joel's birthday is this coming Thursday - 8 Oct 2009. He is turning 13 years old.


Don't forget to wish him, "Happy Birthday"! He is all excited about getting presents and getting wishes....


Of course, it will be nice if you could get him a present as well ;-). I am sure he will really really appreciate it.


The joy of childhood.

Thursday, September 10, 2009

2 Piano Teachers

In the last few days, I have decided that I will take up piano. I have wanted to play piano almost forever but never had the opportunity.


My children, have been taking piano lessons. Joel (12+ yo) for the last 1 year and Ethaniel (7+ yo) for the last 4 months.


When I expressed my interest to pick up piano, you should have seen the eager teachers!!! Both of them were so zealous.


"I want to sit beside, Mum," chirped the little teacher


"You move to the other side," insist the bossy teacher


"Mum, Mum, here's what you do," both teachers talking at the same time!


"Good job, Mum," compliments the bossy teacher


"Wow," claps the little teachers


"No! Mummy needs to play this page first before that!" insist the bossy teacher with a sharp look


I was amused.


I noticed the difference between the two teachers. One is so systematic and insist that I begin with page 1 and continue page by page. Whilst the other younger teacher insist that I play the piece he has just finished learning, without looking at the book, just "look at me, like this, Mum!" Obviously my Son thinks that I am some prodigy!! Haha.


How to learn just by looking? After 2 kids, brain cells have decreased in numbers, you know? I have a hard time trying to recall what I went upstairs to take!!!

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Swimming & Having Fun

On 27 July, Joel had his 2nd leg of competition which was organised by Milo. This time round, they held it in Seremban. It was nice. I have not been to Seremban since the death of my maternal Grandmother. That was 13 years ago. Yes, that long ago. I was 2 months pregnant with Joel.


It has this bitter sweet memory.


When my maternal Grandmother was alive, our family would visit her in Mantin (30 mins away from Seremban, I think) and then at times come to Seremban to visit other relatives. Incidentally, Grandmother was hospitalised in the General Hospital where she passed away. Sigh. I do love that sweet, gentle and frail woman. Gutsy too!


Let's get a little distracted and talk about Grandmother.... Just recently, my Mother told me that when Grandmother had aches in her body - like most 90+ years old women do, she would ask neighboring children to do a quick 'guasa' (scraping her body using a clay spoon. A traditional Chinese therapy) on her back. When done, she would reward the child with 50 cents. That tells how both innovative and generous she is. That's my Grandmother.


Anyway. Back to topic.


Where was I?


Joel's competitions were back stroke 50m, Butterfly 50m, Freestyle 50m & 100m and Breaststroke 50m & 100m. He did pretty well and made better time than during training days. So, he was pretty pleased with himself and I was definitely proud of him.


The water in the swimming pool was freezing. Having to train at 7am in the morning didn't help. On the 2nd day, he might have gotten a chill which gave him a fever but yet, he persevered and didn't pull out from the competition. What a good lesson on perseverance.


I never knew being a parent of a swimmer took so much more perseverance. From 7am till 6pm, all we do is hang around waiting for your child's turn to swim - which does not last more than 5 minutes in total. So, there is just so much thing one can do... chatting, reading, game boy and some more chatting and some more reading...


After each competition, they are to continue their swim in another pool, so, his fellow swimmers were playing around pushing each other around the pool. I saw that and started taking photos. It was so funny seeing them having some fun amidst some serious competition.


Since Joel was about 10 years old, I had trained him to be able to cope with 'pranks'. After all, we live in a world full of 'jokers' and cruel children. So, he does need to survive and not get offended all the time.



Joel's friend almost pushed him in



Pushing another boy in



This bunch of girls and boys had heaps of fun. Nice to see that young boys and girls can play together and not be shy



Joel looking tired


After the children were playing 'pushing' into the pool for almost 5 mins. Suddenly, one of the parent came over and reprimanded her daughter and told her to stop! I felt a little embarassed. There I was condoning it - so shameful *sheepish smile*. Lighten up, Mum!


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Saturday, July 18, 2009

Black Tie Event

My boys seldom wants to wear a suit. Especially Joel. It was difficult to convince him to wear one. He has outgrown 2-3 suits without having won it once! Ethaniel on the other hand, is more willing. He enjoys looking coooool.


Attending our Bangkokian friend's wedding in Penang, again, we tried to convince the boys to wear their suit before they outgrow it again.


When they actually put it on, all I could see was ...


stunning...


handsome...


unbelievably good looking...


totally "leng chai"...


drop dead gorgeous...


Cannot take my eyes of these handsome boys!!!


Well, I could be a little bias, but just a little.



making sure his hair is nicely combed



Joel looking all grown up



Ethaniel trying to keep himself occupied during the wedding ceremony.

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Thursday, July 16, 2009

Two Buddies

Joel and KG have not seen each other since we returned to Malaysia in Feb 2009, that was 4 + months.


They re-united at Penang and had a good time playing together.....



KG


Joel


KG & Joel rolling on the sand...


Ah, the joy of childhood.... and good friends.



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Sunday, June 28, 2009

More of Camporama

Whenever our children go somewhere without us, we have this hidden fear that they will not fair well. Mothers often think that they are indespensable , especially when the children are young . I wonder why we think that? Is it because we are overprotective? Or is it we the parents, actually misses the children more than they actually miss us?


I don't often leave the children, except if I did not have a choice. Which is also not often. I wish there were more occasions I can do that. Now that I am in Malaysia, there are more baby-sitters available. But from past experience, I realise that trips are much more fun with the kids. More laughters, chatters, mischieves, noises (too much sometimes), jokes, adventurous and fun. I am sure most parents out there feels that way. Or maybe not. Anyway.


Joel was talking about the Camporama days after he returned. He will sit down and tell us jokes which he has heard from his friends. Ethaniel and I will roll over with laughter. And he will choose a time when I need it most. Like when I was really frustrated about something or when I had a day under the weather.


"When you told me those jokes, were you trying to cheer me up?" I looked at him from the corner of my eyes.


He looked at me with a sweet and cheeky all at the same time and said, "Yes".


I thought to myself, when did he get so smart and thoughtful of his ole Mummy. No, not just now. He does try to please and I know that. As much as I try to please him by cooking the food which he likes. Its sure a give and take relationship. Isn't it all about? When we demand our children to do everthing perfectly all the time whilst we are being crappy parents, that's when we frustrate them. Or the other extreme when we give in to them all the time and expecting nothing from them. They become very self centred, self absorbed individuals. Thinking nothing about others.


Back to the Camporama....


He told me ....


About this iritating dorm leader who was really bossy and a "cold shower" for all the thinks they wanted to do, like chatting after the lights was out, making lots of noise and I thought it was reasonable. After all that's why Dorm Leaders are appointed. To keep the kids under control. Joel raised his voice a little, "But he is NOT even Our Dorm. He oversees the next dorm!" Now I see his point.


He threw a piece of paper filled with water into the bath when his friend J P was taking a shower. He bowled over with laughter.


He heard JP related an incident that happened in his own dorm. His dorm leader stood in front of the fan after a hot day of sweat and bad body odor. It almost killed them!


He repeated a few inappropriate jokes told by his friends but it made me laugh, nevertheless.


There were awesome food which he enjoyed. Feed him well and half of the battle is won.


Sounded like this young man had a real fun time. I am glad.


BTW, well done to the Royal Rangers for organising such a great Camporama!

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Away to Camporama!


Me and my young man


"Hello Mum, how are you?"


It was a surprise but nice to receive the call.


"Hi Joel! How are you? Are you having fun?


I dropped him at about 7.30am at Church that morning. There were many children waiting to go for the Royal Rangers Camporama when we arrived. This is his first time attending, the previous years, he was too young. It is held every 4 years.


"Can I speak to Ethaniel, please?"


So, sweet of him to ask to talk to his little brother. A nice change from being at each other's throat.


"Hello Ko Ko (mean "older brother" in Chinese). How are you? Blah blah blah..."


I was sitting nearby smiling to myself, eavesdropping on what both of them were chatting about. If only they could be this polite to each other 24/7, 375 days a year! Then, it would be heavenly. Oh well, maybe once a while is still nice and enjoyable.


"I miss you and want to come back. I miss my bolster and pillow"


I laughed. He wants to come back because of his bolster and pillow :-) Not only that, he misses his Mummy and his brother and his Daddy. Indeed, absence makes the heart fonder. I bet all the boys at the camp, all having fun and yet lining up at the public phone to call back to their Mummies and Daddies. Such a cute sight to behold.


This is totally unexpected. I thought he will be so caught up with fun that I will only get a chance to talk to him after the 4 days 3 nights camp. Which was OK. He is allowed to have some space. I understand. But 4 telephone calls in 3 days was a nice surprise.


Little gestures like that really melts a Mother's heart. Right? You Mothers out there.


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Monday, May 18, 2009

A Mother's Pride and Joy

My young man, after his warm up


"Great job! I am proud of you", I was smiling and beaming from ear to ear. The feeling of pride of a Mother towards their child is so precious that its kinda difficult to describe. It probably feels greater seeing him accomplishing it than having achieved it myself.



Joel is standing on platform No. 8


Just like I rather experience the pain, disappointment and sickness myself than to see my children having to go through it.


Sigh.


A mother's love knows no bounds. I wonder how evolution managed to design that into a women. No way!


The late morning heat was getting to me, actually all of us. Ethaniel, Hubby and I was sweating. Trying to brush off the heat, I spoke to a Mother and later read the Sunday Times. Everybody waits. Patiently. Nobody complains, anxious or fidgety. Except Ethaniel and Joel. First timers.


The stadium packed with parents


What do you do while waiting for your turn to swim? Wait. That's all you can do, really. Anyway, now we know what to bring.... some books, MP4, maybe laptop, paper to draw, a paper fan and preferably a TV too! The parents wait around, chatting.


Do you see the mussels? I mean, muscles?


It's all worth it, anything for our children.


Joel clocked 47 seconds compared to his training time of 53 seconds for the freestyle 50m.


Good job!


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